Reading List

Kids, Preteens, and younger teens:

Care and Keeping of You by Valorie Schaefer

Its Perfectly Normal by Robie H. Harris

Sex is a Funny Word by Cory Silverberg 

Older Teens and Young Adults: 

Girls and Sex by Peggy Orenstein 

SEX second edition: The All You Need To know Sexuality Guide by Heather Corinna 

The Pride Guide by Jo Langfod 

Queer: Ultimate LGBT Guide for Teens by Kathy Belge

Trans Teen Survival Guide by Fox Fisher 

Our Bodies, Ourselves by Boston Women’s Health Book Collective 

Menstruation: 

A Period Guide Book and Journal by Saski Boujo 

Period Repair Manual by Lara Briden 

The Fifth Vital Sign by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack 

In the FLO by Alisa Vitti 

On Vaginas, Female Fertility, and more: 

Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagoski

The Come as You Are Workbook: A Practical Guide to the Science of Sex by Dr. Emily Nagoski

Vagina Bible by Dr. Jen Gunter MD

Taking Charge of Your Fertility, 20th Anniversary Edition: The Definitive Guide to Natural Birth Control, Pregnancy Achievement, and Reproductive Health by Toni Weschler. 

Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters–And How to Get It by Laurie Mintz

Male-Specific: 

(younger boys)  “Guy Stuff: The Body Book for Boys” By Cara Natterson

(older boys and young adults) Boys & Sex by Peggy Orenstein 

For adult sex ed and more: 

My Sexual Values Workbook by Erica Smith 

Carnal Knowledge: Sex Education You Didn’t Get in School by Zoe Lingon 

Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good by Adrienne Maree Brown 

The Body is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love by Sonya Renee Taylor

The Purity Myth: How America’s Obsession with Virginity Is Hurting Young Wome by Jessica Valenti

Love’s Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities by Kevin A. Patterson

Enabling Romance: A Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships for People with Disabilities (and the People Who Care About Them) by Ken Kroll

Polyamory, Kink, and Alternative Sex: 

The Ethical Slut (third edition) by Janet W Hardy and Dossie Easton 

The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino 

Sex at Dawn by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan 

More Than Two by Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux

Parents: 

Read Me: A Parental Primer for The Talk 

Sexploitation: Helping Kids Develop Healthy Sexuality in a Porn-Driven World By Cindy Pierce.

Sex, Teens, and Everything in Between: The New and Necessary Conversations Today’s Teenagers Need to Have about Consent, Sexual Harassment, Healthy Relationships, Love, and More by Shafia Zaloom

Body Safety Education: A parents’ guide to protecting kids from sexual abuse by Jayneen Sanders

Talk Sex Today: What Kids Need to Know and How Adults Can Teach Them by Saleema Noon and Meg Hickling

Girls of Color, Sexuality, and Sex Education by Sharon Lamb , Tangela Roberts , Aleksandra Plocha

The Sex Education Answer Book: By the Age Responses to Tough Questions Kids Ask Parents about Sex by Cath Hakanson

On Sex Work: 

Playing the Whore by Melissa Gira Grant

Rebelling Prostitutes by Juno Mac and Molly Smith 

Thriving in Sex Work by Lola Davina 

Biology and Science: 

Testosterone Rex by Cordelia Fine 

The Body by Bill Bryson 

How to Grow a Human by Philip Ball 

Psychology:

Codependent No More by Melody Beattie

The New Codependency by Melody Beattie 

Why Won’t You Apologize by Harriet Lerner, Ph.D 

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D.


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